Scenario: You are in a club with your friends. You stare at a girl who just takes your breath away. You have to go say something.
Unfortunately, if you’re like most guys, you now have a problem: you don’t have the slightest idea what to say to him. After all, won’t she think you’re weird or creepy if you walk up and start talking to her? Well maybe; but that’s only if you say something weird or creepy.
It’s no secret that women appreciate a good sense of humor. If you ask most women who their ideal guy is, the ability to make her laugh will surely be one of the qualities that attracts her. If you want to make a good impression on a woman, there is almost no better way than to make her laugh right away. And as cheesy as it sounds, a “pickup line” at the right time and in the right place can make a world of difference.
Here are some of the best phrases to get you started (I know they’ll sound ridiculously cheesy and ineffective, but don’t delete them before you try them!):
Baby if you were words on a page you’d be what they call fine print
Does Levi’s pay you to wear that and look so good?
Excuse me miss… Do you have a cigarette? I don’t really want one, I just wanted to start a conversation with you.
You know what would look great on you? Me.
Do you have an overdue book? Because you have FINE written all over it!
Ok I know this sounds ridiculous but these will break the ice like nothing else. The next step though, and this is a big one, is to make him realize that you know it was a cheesy thing to say. She’ll quickly realize that you weren’t trying to pick her up honestly (or so she thinks) and you’ll have established a rapport right away by making her laugh.
Get creative here! Create your own and make sure it matches your style. Make sure you can say whatever you’re going to say without sounding ridiculous. The best lead lines are not based on content, but on the strength of your delivery.
If you ran your pickup line correctly, you now have a connection and can unleash the rest of your game. She is as good as yours.