Women who give too much in relationships will usually find that their relationships don’t work out. And this happens to many women. They give too much, too soon, and then wonder why it’s not appreciated. If you’re tired of giving to your man, if you feel drained from feeling like you’re getting too little in return, read this article to find out why giving too much won’t win a man over.
Women can be very giving and generous in relationships. Naturally, a girl wants to impress her new man from the start. However, giving too much is never good when you barely know a guy. If you give too much without demanding that you receive in return, he may accept your generous gifts, but subconsciously he will know that you underestimate yourself. She will lose respect for you from the start. It may take advantage, but then it will probably go away.
This is because giving too much tends to stem from a sense of need and inadequacy. If I give more, he will love me more. If I do more, he will appreciate me more. He gives because he doesn’t want to lose the relationship that gives him purpose. She is afraid to tell her no in case she gets upset and leaves her. She maybe she washes her clothes, lends him money and gives him gifts, or sleeps with him too soon. She can put her own life on hold to always be available to him and give in to her last minute requests and demands of her.
Does he appreciate this? No he does not. If she allows him to walk all over her, he won’t respect her and the relationship will be doomed. He will assume that she is desperate. Or that she is easy. A man really wants a woman who can stand up for herself and take care of herself, despite what he says to the contrary. This is because a man wants a woman who values herself. If you give yourself to someone you barely know, you don’t value yourself. And if you don’t value yourself, he certainly won’t either. Men will value and respect you according to the value and respect you place on yourself.
An immature man may encourage you to be selfless and give generously to him, but he will only be interested in you as long as you give to him. As soon as you expect something in return, he will not be able to return it. You will end up exhausted and exhausted. This is a good reason to get to know him before giving too much away!
Added to this, women who give too much in relationships are often unable to receive because they don’t feel worthy. She feels uncomfortable if he pays for dinner or buys her gifts or helps her in any way. She feels that she should be independent and she doesn’t like to ask him for help. However, a mature masculine man needs to feel needed by his woman. He is happy to help, as long as she admires her efforts. It is important for him to be significant. Generosity is a masculine trait and for this reason, a man will love treating the girl of his dreams. A woman who knows how to receive and appreciate will bring out the best in her man and will make him feel good. These are the relationships that are successful, not the ones where a woman gives too much.
Instead, her delivery makes him feel suffocated. He feels the need for him and is uncomfortable with the expectations of him. He wonders when the time for revenge will come. These women are giving because they want something in return. They want the relationship at all costs. Who the man is tends to be pretty irrelevant and he knows it. Without the relationship he feels empty and empty.
If you are one of those women who give too much in relationships, then you are not alone. Most of us have been there at some point in our lives. Giving too much is generally an unconscious behavior. We don’t even know we’re doing it. Once you are aware of this, you can begin to see the reasons why you do it. Realize that now is the time to start valuing yourself more so that a man will value you more. Start learning to both receive and give and appreciate every little thing your man does for you. This will encourage you to give more and feel good about it. If he can do this, he will have more energy and happy relationships.