It can be a tough world when it comes to finding someone special. It can feel like a never-ending battle, often one you’re tired of fighting. telling yourself, “The girl of my dreams does not exist” it won’t help you much when it comes to finding the girl of your dreams.
The real problem lies in the way you think. You have this Hollywood image as to what your perfect girl looks like. And that’s why the girl of your dreams doesn’t exist. Every man has an example, a type or a way of imagining the woman he wants to be with. The other problem is not communicating with any women.
You’re going to have to communicate with women, talk to them and let them get to know you. Men are visual, they get excited in this way, women on the other hand are not. They will be attracted to you based on your interior. This means that you have a chance with any woman you like.
Negative attitudes and telling yourself that the girl of your dreams doesn’t exist won’t do anything for you with the ladies. Have you ever thought that the girl of your dreams is the one you see every day, but you will never know, you will not be able to do it, unless you stop beating yourself up and start really looking for the girl of your dreams?
I’ve personally been there, I know how this goes, and more importantly, I know how it ends. If you’re looking to find your one true love, then you need to know where to start:
- Stop telling yourself, “The girl of my dreams doesn’t exist.”
- Stop looking at just “hot girls” and remember that you are looking for the real thing.
- Start talking to women. This is a crucial step, the initial step.
- Meet some of the women you see every day. Maybe one of them is the one.
- Tell your friends what you’re looking for. They can help you and spread the word.
These are just the first, but the most important things you can do right now when you are looking for your future love. The most important thing is to have the idea that the girl of your dreams does not exist. I used to say all the time that the girl of my dreams doesn’t exist, and I was wrong.
If I could leave you with the one thing that I always did, and that always contributed to the reason I was thinking that the girl of my dreams doesn’t exist, it was because I ignored the concept that I was the one who had to make it happen.
Sure, she might be able to greet you first, but why wait for that? All she ever did for me was keep me guessing and make me more miserable. Do you spend many nights just wishing you weren’t? I certainly did. Do you hate going out to places like the mall, a restaurant, or even a movie because you look at happy couples? I did, and I did it with great hatred. I was screwing up, and in no way was I fit or prepared to be a huge contributor to a real, stable relationship.