How often do women climax during sex? Are all female orgasms the same? If not… Why not, and which ones are better? What do women really think about size? Is she completely uninterested in sex, or is she just not interested in ME at all? Do any of these questions sound familiar? The truth is, for many men, the female body and sexual drive are completely mysterious.
No matter how well you know your girlfriend, wife, or lover, there are still sexual secrets that she is probably NOT sharing. In fact, we have published hundreds of articles, which have been read by thousands of men, and the one constant set of questions that keep coming up are those related to YOUR body and her orgasm as well.
In this article, we’re going to take a quick and easy look at the top 4 questions we get about female sexual habits from readers around the world, and specifically questions about their orgasm habits as well. Are you curious to know more? Read on as we take a closer look below!
How often can a woman REALLY orgasm during sex?
Good question! Contrary to popular myth, the vast majority of women can have multiple orgasms, for any and all sexual experiences. There are two types of orgasm experiences for a woman: 1 – Serial climax, which simply means that she is capable of many (or at least multiple) orgasms during a longer sexual encounter. 2 – Sequential climax, refers to a series of shorter orgasms, usually “clustered” and occurring in short succession.
Can all women have both types during sexual intercourse?
Another good question! The answer is yes and no. Here’s the truth: the vast majority of women CAN experience multiple orgasms during sex. However, it is much more difficult to achieve this with intercourse alone. A better way? Foreplay for sexual stimulation is much better for a woman who prefers to climax more than once, while intercourse is much more challenging for most.
Why is this true?
This is how most female bodies are made! But first, remember that every woman is different. Second, the above “rules” are not rules for everyone, but rather true for most. During intercourse, the most sensitive parts of your anatomy are much more difficult to stimulate, simply because they are located much deeper in your body and require much more friction. On the other hand, foreplay is much more about stimulating sensitive spots much closer to surface level, which means prolonged pleasure is much easier to achieve.
Is this where the “size matters” arguments and debates come from?
Absolutely. For some women who RATHER to climax with intercourse, a better endowed man, or at least one who is well suited to her body, is much, much preferable. For other women, who prefer foreplay for orgasm and intercourse for intimacy, size isn’t as big of a concern.
Finally, and this is very important to remember:
Women enjoy sex just as much, if not more, than many men. That being said, there are simply different reasons why our sexual habits are not the same as yours, even when the interest level is the same.
Women value intimacy and connection just as much as orgasm when it comes to our favorite part of lovemaking…and keeping this in mind with YOUR partner is a great way to ensure she continues to have a libido to match! yours too!
Remember, sexual compatibility is key. Their bodies must work together. Your needs should complement each other. And communication, above all, is the erotic engine par excellence, especially for her!