We all know that you need pick up lines to get girls, but most guys don’t use them because they’re doing it all wrong. What you should be doing is making a “statement of intent.” This is all part of escalating sexual tension and laying the groundwork for sex later on.
Statements of intent can take several different forms. There are direct ones, like telling him that he is sexy, that you are going to try to get into his pants, or that you would like to do this and that to him. There are also denials, like saying, “If there wasn’t anyone else here right now, I’d fold you right here.” Another is: “You probably can’t imagine the things I’m thinking of doing with you.” The idea is to give him a clear signal that you are sexually interested. You are putting the sexual agenda on the table.
Although the idea is not to pressure her. For example, don’t say, “You have to have sex with me tonight or you’ll never hear from me again.” All you’re doing is letting her know how you feel about her. Putting it this way changes the rules of the game and lets you know exactly what’s going on.
She really knows what’s going on from the start, but doing this is creating what I call “passive acceptance.” This is the idea that if you put it out there and tell her after you’ve already laid the groundwork with comfort, attraction, and qualification, she’s not going to say no.
You also have to do it in a way that doesn’t scare her. This is why comfort is so important. Put it on the table explicitly, but not too much. The goal isn’t to describe every position you’re going to do it in; it’s just to let her know that you think she’s hot and that you’re interested in her in a sexual way.
Why don’t more guys do this? The reason is that we have all been taught that this is a game where we have to be coy about it. You have to look like a nice guy and sneak up on him. The only problem with this way of thinking is that everything is wrong. The truth is that women are just as interested in sex as men. Actually approaching a woman without the sexual tension is what leads to the situation where she receives a last minute rejection.
Try out some pick up lines to get girls into bed and see what works. The key to success is timing them correctly; don’t get hot and heavy early on, but start building sexual tension and get her on the table early enough in the game so she can scale it and not surprise her.