So what exactly can a woman do to ensure that she gets her lesbian ex-girlfriend back?
Maybe lately you may have been feeling that no matter what you try, everything you do seems to push your ex-girlfriend further and further away, right?
Can you relate to that?
And right now, and maybe every minute of the day, you are asking yourself the same question: what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back?
I’ve put together a few mini tips that are easy to use and more importantly will greatly increase your chances of making sure you get back together with your lost love.
Ok, so obviously, right now, you’re very serious about saving your old relationship, right?
That’s what finally brought you to this page in the first place!
But unfortunately his current behavior might be hindering any chance he has of getting back together with his ex-girlfriend!
In fact, if you are TOO ANGRY to get your ex girlfriend back, then you are almost certainly behaving in the wrong way, which naturally causes your ex girlfriend to drift away.
They might even give him more reasons NOT to get back together with you, and we certainly don’t want that, do we?
I understand that her behavior is just human nature to behave the way she does, we’ve all been there, but honestly, it’s natural for your ex girlfriend to resist this kind of pressure.
So ultimately you’re making her fight against human nature and that’s completely useless, it’ll push her too far, past a point of no return and just make things worse.
One of the biggest mistakes you can make is calling your ex girlfriend too much, I know you maybe miss her a lot, and you think if you keep calling she will eventually succumb to your advances, but trust me she won’t.
If you take an honest look at how you’re behaving, do you think you may be calling your ex too much?
Or maybe you’ve gone the route of constant emails?
Or worse yet, constantly bombard her with text messages?
All this will do is make your ex girlfriend feel sorry for you.
Now you may think that the sympathy vote is better than nothing, but all you are doing is looking needy in the eyes of your ex girlfriend.
This is NOT the way to get your ex girlfriend back.
So what can you do to get your ex girlfriend back? You must take a step back!
First you have to stop:
phoning all the time.
Email all the time.
Send text messages all the time.
You need to stop doing any of the above RIGHT NOW!
Instead you want to take a completely surprising approach, the element of surprise will be your new best friend!
You have to start by stopping all contact with your ex girlfriend for a short time.
Don’t panic, she won’t forget you, in fact by ceasing all contact you will actually make her think of you even more!
Now, while she’s wondering why you’ve stopped all contact, you’re going to be off doing your thing.
Throughout this period of no contact with your ex girlfriend, you will focus on ways you can improve your own personal life.
You will not sulk over the problems in your current relationship.
You will become disciplined and take on some new challenges, nothing too difficult, just general things that will improve your life immensely and prevent you from falling back into your old ways of “constant contact with your ex girlfriend”.
Now, while you are improving your own life, the other side of the coin will see that your ex girlfriend is surely going through an emotional change in how she feels about you.
Since you’re no longer actively pursuing her, you’ve suddenly become more of a mystery to her, because she’s lost control knowing you’re moving, now she’s not sure what you’re doing or what you’re feeling.
You see that no contact has forced your ex to think about you even more, which is an important step in getting your ex girlfriend back, well done!
By giving your ex girlfriend a real break, you have given her the opportunity to miss you again.
Now you must remember to work with human nature and not against it, human nature will help you get your ex girlfriend back in no time.
So now you know a big mistake to avoid, don’t drown your ex, give him time to miss you wonderfully!
Here’s a quick summary:
Don’t smoke your ex girlfriend.
Make yourself seem mysterious.
Play hard to get it (but not too hard!).
and above all let her make the first move.
Very soon you will have your ex girlfriend back in your arms, where she belongs.