Have you ever sat by the phone wondering why he hasn’t called yet? Do you panic every time he doesn’t call when he says? Wondering if you should call him instead? All women feel a little insecure or frustrated when their man doesn’t call right away. The trick is to get him to enjoy calling you and to realize that if he wants things to progress further, he has to call.
after the first date
They exchanged numbers and he promised to call. Now it’s the next day or the next day. What do you do for a living? Call him, just want to know what’s going on, or see if he’s free for the weekend, no big deal, right? Wrong. For the early phases of the relationship, the guy should initiate all the calling. Why? Because men aren’t driven by the need to communicate, unlike women, they may feel suffocated if you keep calling them. Also, by having him always initiate the calls, you’ll be able to tell that he’s genuinely interested because he’s willing to put in the effort to talk to you.
When the call finally comes
Don’t jump on the couch just to catch him at the first ring. He knows that you have a life and that you can be busy. In fact, if you answer the phone right away every time he calls, he may start to wonder if you have a life of your own. Most guys don’t want their girl to be so clingy, and a strong independent girl is a sexy girl. If you’re doing something else, let him go to voicemail, most of the time it’ll make him wonder what you’re up to, and it’s nice to have him waiting for a phone call for once.
on the phone
Don’t talk for a long time. Save most of your conversation for when you’re in person. Men don’t like to talk for hours on the phone like women do. If you expect to spend an hour on the phone each time you call, you’ll be less likely to call frequently and right away. Don’t fill the phone conversation with how much you miss him and can’t wait to see him, if he says it first you can return the sentiment, but otherwise try to avoid sounding like you’ve been waiting by the phone for him to do it. call. He lets him set up the first dates and the first calls, he has to show you that he is interested and then you can show him that you are too.