When you get to know someone and everything is fine, the love and affection grows, the desire to be with them grows, but sometimes that fades with the chemistry and passion. Love that lasts, is built with respect and admiration for that person, for what they really are.
But sometimes, something takes us away, that closes our hearts and makes us lose interest when we see something that generates doubts and fear. That is where love and all positive feelings are cut and broken.
Love is a natural state of the human being. We all wish we had someone to love. Our natural inclination is to fall in love. When we meet someone we like, we are automatically drawn to love them, unless there is something turning us off.
When you find someone you really like, to maintain the relationship with the one you feel is ‘the one’, you can’t turn them off or push them away.
That doesn’t mean you have to pretend, but that you have to become a person who naturally doesn’t do things that create fear in anyone’s mind.
By working on yourself, to become someone who doesn’t act selfish, narrow-minded or emotionally unstable, or hypersensitive and easily offended, we can keep love when we find it.
Become someone who is naturally the most attractive person by not doing things to create fear; ‘Oh my gosh, what will this person be in the future?’
You can dress up and put on perfume, but eventually you are seen for who you are. That he needs to be a person worthy of the love he seeks.
Basically, we say don’t do things that push someone away instead of focusing too much on doing things to be loved. Of course, both is better.
EXERCISE
Step 1 Make a list of all the things that turn you off. Arrogant, selfish, hot-tempered, easily offended, emotionally touchy, etc. These are just some of the qualities that make a physically attractive person very unattractive. Make your list unfiltered, just list anything you feel is getting you down, mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Step 2 Take an honest look at yourself and objectively observe yourself over the next two to three weeks. Is there something in you that needs to change? How many of the things on your list in Step 1 are you guilty of doing?
Do not be afraid if you are faced with an ugly reality. Anything in your personality can change because you were not born as you are now. Human beings are born as a blank slate, shaped by the events of our lives. All features can be changed if you really want to. The question is, how much do you want to have that Love that lasts a Lifetime?
A beautiful soul, in an average or below average body, can have a long line of suitors. After all, love that lasts a lifetime will long outlive our physical attractiveness.
The part of you that wants to share a life of love and passion until old age must be what you polish, much more than Photoshopping your selfies.
Every human being has a pure heart, it just takes effort and willingness to let go of the past so that the scars heal instead of leaving them in the next encounter and scaring them away.
The exercise in this article will help you change so much that in no time you will become so attractive that everyone you date will want to stay with you forever.