When you’re interacting with an attractive woman you want to sleep with, you need to touch her and make physical contact as soon as reasonably possible. Sex is a physical activity and you need to show her that you are a physical and sexual man who is used to and comfortable touching the bodies of attractive women.
You need to communicate that you are a tactile person who easily and naturally makes physical contact with friends and girlfriends. This will help turn her on and make sure you don’t end up in the dreaded friend zone.
You need to make physical contact early, but that doesn’t mean you have to make any jerky, grabbing, or lunging movements, that will just scare her. Instead, what you should do is make innocent and seemingly involuntary physical contact, and in all cases it should be done gently and naturally.
You can make inadvertent physical contact by ‘accidentally’ bumping into her while walking or gently bumping your hands or legs against hers while clapping your hands or moving your feet to the beat of the music. What is vital here is that you never look at the part of her body that you are touching. Remember, this physical contact is supposed to be accidental.
It is also vital that you never back down from any physical contact with a woman, or sheepishly withdraw your hand, etc. afterwards. You need to let her know that you’re used to physical contact with her, and this means that you’re comfortable touching her, either deliberately or accidentally. If necessary, train yourself with practice not to recoil after making physical contact with a woman’s body; it is absolutely vital that you master this.
Another seemingly innocent tactic is to ask her to look at your watch, ring, or any jewelry on your wrist. This will naturally allow you to grab their hand or wrist.
Alternatively, ask if they have soft hands or take their pulse, which again gives you a genuine reason to hold their hand or wrist.
Take your hand and examine the watch, jewelry, or the smoothness of your skin, but don’t hold your hand longer than it naturally takes to perform your examination. That would look creepy.
If you know anything about reading palms, this is another great way to initiate physical contact. Also, women love spiritual topics like divination and palm reading, and these topics usually provide great ways to connect and build rapport with women.
If he likes sports or working out, ask what’s wrong with him: ask him to flex his biceps and feel how firm they are. I love girls who work out and I particularly love using this trick to feel their arms.
Another form of natural physical contact is holding her hand as you lead her down a crowded street or bar, or putting your hand protectively around her small back as you direct her.
Use hand gestures while talking to her and ‘accidentally’ (and lightly) touch her arms or breasts with the back of your hand.
In all cases, keep these movements smooth and, again, never look where you are playing. These keys have to look accidental.
Be natural and make it look natural. You’ll turn her on and she’ll probably have no idea you were planning this all along!
Now is your turn. The next time you’re with a woman you’re interested in, try some of these tactics to speed up physical contact. You’ll be amazed at how quickly you can start building up that sexual spark with light, seemingly innocent touches.